When faced with nerves, we tend to hesitate and come up with excuses. These excuses can prevent us from embracing self-love and self-care. Between the demands of a busy life, hectic work schedules, and responsibilities to others, it's easy to put ourselves last. We may prioritize spending time with our partners or use reasons like needing to lose weight or lacking financial resources as excuses.
We often find reasons to justify neglecting ourselves. I want to convey that regardless of the excuse, it is possible to overcome it. Allow me to demonstrate that no matter the excuse, you deserve self-love.
"I struggle to find time for myself."
It’s really important to understand that when you neglect your mental well-being, it’s harder to be there for others. We all know this, but actually making time for it can be tough. Personally, I sometimes forget to take mental breaks, which is why I think it’s important to talk about this. I use those same excuses too, and there are times when I need someone to remind me to stop, chill out, and just take a breather.
During a boudoir shoot, take a moment to chill, breathe, and really love yourself for a few hours. Just think how freeing it is to stop comparing yourself to others or stressing about what they think of how you look. This experience lets you find your real beauty and takes a big load off your mind.
It's so important to carve out some "me time." So why not treat yourself to a glamorous session where you get all dolled up and just enjoy yourself for a change?
"I am not at my desired weight/I do not conform to the media's portrayal of an ideal size."
Did you know that only 5% of American women naturally have the body type often portrayed as ideal in ads? Just five percent!
Why should anyone feel they have to fit a specific size to embrace self-love? Why buy into society's narrow definition of the perfect body to appreciate your own? And why compare yourself to others when every woman is beautifully unique?
It's great to set goals and work towards being healthy, but does that mean you have to dislike your body in the process? Definitely not! Love yourself every step of the way. Be proud of where you're at now so you can celebrate how far you've come. Maybe consider a boudoir shoot to honor your current self, and another when you reach your goals—it's all about cherishing yourself through every stage.
"I no longer feel sexy or sensual, so a boudoir shoot isn't for me."
WRONGGGGGG.
This is precisely why a boudoir shoot is ideal for you. Life's chaos can sometimes disconnect us from our femininity or sensuality due to health, children, or work. It's normal, and it's okay. A boudoir shoot can reignite that lost spark within you. I can help you rediscover that inner allure which might also rekindle a spark between you and your partner.
Moreover, you don't have to wear ultra-sexy attire if it doesn't align with your personality. There are numerous outfit options available to reflect your style and comfort. Feel free to discuss ideas with me or explore our blog on outfit suggestions.
"A boudoir shoot is a financial investment, and I don't have all the funds at this moment."
Absolutely, a boudoir shoot is all about investing in yourself and boosting your confidence. We understand it's a commitment, so we offer payment plans to make it easier for you. After the initial booking deposit, we can work out a schedule for the remaining payments, making the whole process more manageable for you. Don't let finances hold you back from treating yourself.
No matter your size, it's important to love yourself just as you are and not compare yourself to others. A boudoir shoot can help you feel sexy and confident, celebrating your uniqueness. It's truly an investment in your happiness. If you're interested, we can set up a payment plan for you. Don't wait—book your shoot now and get ready to feel amazing!
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